CDC Certified Divorce Coach® Katie VandenBerg Shares Insight on Divorce Strategy, Emotional Regulation, and Forward-Focused Decision-Making
Quick Answer: In this exclusive divorce coach interview on WBBM Newsradio Chicago, Katie VandenBerg discusses why modern divorce requires more than just legal counsel. The feature covers the strategic role of a divorce coach, how to navigate high-conflict personalities (including narcissists), and why treating divorce as a “business transaction” is the key to protecting your financial and emotional future.
Introduction: Media Recognition & Professional Context
In this divorce coach interview, I joined WBBM Newsradio to discuss why modern divorce requires a strategic, business-minded approach alongside legal counsel.
Hello! It has been an incredibly busy summer at our house. Between the kids being home, selling another one of our small businesses, the constant cycle of work on our rental properties, and—of course—helping my clients navigate their own transitions, I haven’t had a moment to share this exciting news until now!
About a month ago, Andy Dahn from WBBM Newsradio Chicago messaged me. He wanted to interview me specifically about my divorce coaching practice and the rising demand for strategic support during marital dissolution.
Click the link below to listen to the full segment!
The Role of Divorce Coaching in Today’s Divorce Landscape
Divorce coaching is a professional service that assists individuals in managing the emotional and logistical “business” of divorce, distinct from therapy or legal representation.
One of the primary goals of this divorce coach interview was to clarify exactly what a coach does. There is often confusion about where coaching fits in the “divorce team” triad.
Therapists look backward to heal emotional wounds. Attorneys look at the law to divide assets. As a Divorce Coach, I look forward. My role is to help clients manage the day-to-day decision-making, emotional regulation, and strategic communication required to get from point A to point B.
Divorce is, fundamentally, a business transaction. However, it is a transaction conducted by two people who are often at their emotional worst. Without a strategist to help separate emotion from fact, many individuals make reactive decisions that negatively impact their financial future.
Key Topics Discussed During the WBBM Chicago Interview
The conversation on WBBM covered practical strategies for hiring a coach, supporting grieving friends, and maintaining dignity during high-conflict separations.
I love being a podcast or radio guest because it allows me to dive deep into the topics that matter most to my clients. In this feature, we discussed:
- How to Hire a Divorce Coach Near Me: We discussed how to identify when you need a strategist on your team. The ideal time to hire a coach is often before the legal filing, allowing for preparation and organization.
- How Do I Divorce a Narcissist? A significant portion of the interview focused on the complexities of divorcing a high-conflict personality. We discussed the importance of emotional regulation—learning not to take the bait—and maintaining strict boundaries to protect one’s peace.
- How Can I Help a Friend Through Their Divorce? We discussed why friends should avoid “fueling the fire” with angry rhetoric and instead encourage strategic thinking and professional support.
Why Media Conversations About Divorce Strategy Matter
Public discourse on divorce strategy helps normalize the need for professional support and reduces the stigma associated with seeking help for marital dissolution.
We must continue to have these conversations on platforms like WBBM Chicago. For too long, divorce has been viewed solely as a legal failure or an emotional tragedy. By reframing it as a transition that can be managed with dignity, we empower individuals to take control of their futures.
Media features like this divorce coach interview help dismantle the misconception that divorce must be a “war.” When the public understands that divorce strategy is about organization and clarity—not manipulation—it lowers the temperature for everyone involved.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
What topics did you cover in the WBBM interview?
In this feature, we discussed the definition of divorce coaching, the difference between a coach and a lawyer, strategies for divorcing a high-conflict spouse (narcissist), and advice for friends supporting a loved one through separation.
Why was a divorce coach featured on WBBM Chicago?
Divorce coaching is a rapidly growing field. Major news outlets like WBBM are recognizing that professionals need more than just legal advice; they need strategic management for the “business” of their divorce. This interview highlights that shift in the industry.
Can I hire you as a speaker or podcast guest?
Yes! I love being a podcast guest and speaking on these topics. I can talk about a variety of subjects, including high-conflict co-parenting, the financial realities of divorce, and emotional regulation strategies. Please contact me via my Media Page.
Key Takeaways
- Strategy Over Emotion: Success in divorce requires treating the process as a business transaction, not an emotional battleground.
- The Role of the Coach: A CDC Certified Divorce Coach® fills the gap between the lawyer and the therapist, handling logistics and decision-making.
- High-Conflict Management: Navigating a high-conflict divorce requires strict emotional regulation and a refusal to engage in chaos.
- Media Outreach: I am available to speak on these topics to help educate the public on the benefits of a “Focused Forward” approach.
Conclusion & Professional Call to Action
Focused Forward provides media commentary and expert coaching to help individuals navigate the complexities of divorce with confidence.
If you found value in this divorce coach interview or are interested in learning more about how a strategic partner can change the trajectory of your divorce, I invite you to explore the resources available at Focused Forward.
For media inquiries, podcast collaborations, or to inquire about speaking engagements regarding divorce strategy and high-conflict resolution, please reach out via my Contact Page.
